Don't use children as a weapon!!!!

It’s kind of crazy how fast time goes, when you first see a little child especially your own child be born. It’s has to be the most amazing and beautiful thing I have ever seen in my life. Everything does change having that  responsibility of having children to love and bring them up in the world, but there is also the fact that what so many do for there children is the fact that they never get that respect for how much they do for them. I don’t know why anyone on this earth would not respect that, maybe it’s because so many don’t have the heart and always use their own children as a weapon to hurt there ex emotionally by saying thing that always make them feel awful. To me I don’t understand why so many use there children as an emotional weapon. If you think you can do this then think for a moment and think what it would feel like to be in their shoes. I’m not saying that all men and woman are like this but so many are, they need to know that it’s dangerous when using people e

A powerful quote from me


Put your kids first after a brake up

If only they knew how much I loved them maybe they would fully understand who I am to them, everyday I just can’t stop thinking about them. As soon as something deep in my heart was taking way from me, the hard times starting rolling in from each and every angle with thoughts running around my head making me become depressed. I remember like it was just yesterday how my life got turned upside down like my dreams got turned into nightmares all because of a brake up. As I look back at the times when I met someone and fell in love with them and spent 3 and half years together, building a family together then all of a sudden it gets taking away from me. Yes so many go though this, just like me but who have an even longer relationship like 30 years who build a family together, have their own house together then they brake up. So they have to sell the house, while going through a stressful divorce that might cost and arm and leg. They might even be a fight for the man to see the 

It's Time to make that important change

This has to be one of my favourite Quotes from the famous movie  Rocky every time I hear this it makes me think twice about life. It ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done ! Every day, we might wake up when times are hard for us when the world feels like it’s on your shoulders, you might even have so much going through your head that it makes you so stressed that you just can’t find any way to get to sleep. Now, ladies and gentlemen, this is a sigh of our lives telling us we need to change our approach to life. What I mean when I tell you about the approach in life, is all about sorting out what you doing wrong. I don’t mean the bull shit that nearly every negative person says about being single and staying single, making you wish that you never met your ex and you might've had a better way of life or an easy path to a life that every person on th


I want to say many thanks to everyone over the years for their support without them I would not be stronger, if I never had the support and that I fully respect everyone who lands upon my bog posts and to those who take the time to read them.  It may take me a long while to post the next one as there is so much information to share across my blog. I don't really care what others think about what I put, I may not be a good speller or good at grammar, I may be rubbish at maths but why should that stop me, why should I feel like I should let anything or anyone hold me back from going for what I want in life, why should I care about those who don't want to learn to have value in life and try to hold me back. It took me over 10 years to understand what was holding me back so much to a place I did not want to be. That so many are experiencing right now that holds so many back and stops them becoming better in their selves. People who have depression can't live their life